I named my company “Ahimsa Dog Training.” You might think it looks silly. True? Ahimsa looks hard to pronounce, though it really isn’t (uh-him-suh), so that misdirects some referrals I might otherwise have. So why do I stick with it? Ahimsa is a Buddhist and Hindu doctrine of non-violence to all other beings. I chose it for my business name because of what it means, and the fact that if I started using violence and Alpha-rolling dominance to train, I’d have to change my business name. It helps me reflect on my methods and keeps me from sliding down the slippery slope of using force-based punishment with dogs.
â€śBut why is it so important to not use violent methods to train dogs?â€ť you might ask. “Why shouldn’t I alpha roll my dog to show him I’m the boss?” â€śWe’ve been pushing dogs around for thousands of years!â€ť But there was also a point when hitting your child or wife or your slave was okay in Western society, too. We’ve done a fair job at eliminating direct violence to dogs – kicking them, for example, is no longer de rigueur. But having tools like electric shock collars (“e-collars”), choke chains, and prong collars do it for us distances us from the process, sanitizes it, and somehow makes that kind of violence okay. We must move past the idea that ventriloquial violence is acceptable, or we’ll never get to my ultimate goal – world peace.
â€śWorld Peace!â€ť you exclaim, â€śGrisha, this is just dog training. Donâ€™t you mean itâ€™s better for the dogs if we don’t use violence?â€ť Yes, I love dogs, and I do not want our companions hurt or mistreated, but it’s not just about the dogs. Your choice of dog training methods helps form your world view and influences the way you interact with people. For example, the success that we feel when our dog stops doing behavior X because of a shout or a leash correction puts us in the frame of mind that our aggression (and that’s what it is!) works, so we’re tempted to try it on our spouse, or our child, or the car ahead of us in traffic. Children who are successful in bullying one child are likely to repeat that behavior in the future in new situations. I imagine that result extends to treatment of dogs, as well. On the other hand, the patience and ingenuity used in dog-friendly training can spill into your regular life. Which would you prefer?
Those watching traditional dog training are also at risk. Social psychology experiments indicate that observing an act of violence can lead to performing a violent act. We are all at risk, but children watching an adult aggress are likely to do so as well.
In one experiment, Albert Bandura, Dorothea Ross, and Sheila Ross (1961) set up a situation where a Stanford nursery school child is calmly playing, when an adult that was playing with her gets up and begins bashing a blow-up doll with a toy mallet, shouting, “Knock him down,” â€śKick him,” etc. for several minutes. The child leaves and plays in another room with great toys. The experimenter then interrupts and tells the child that the toys in this room are to be saved for other children. Frustrated, the child goes to another room with the mallet, the blow-up doll, and several toys that can be played with non-aggressively. Children that hadn’t seen the adult outburst would simply play in the new room, without aggressive talk. In contrast, many of the children that had seen the outburst began to pick up the mallet and hit the doll and talk aggressively. The adult outburst was the model of what was “normal” – it lowered their inhibitions and gave them a new aggressive ‘skill.’ Similar experiments were done with the aggressive adult no longer nearby or observing the child later, in a completely new setting. The same pattern of new aggression held true.
I would posit that practicing being aggressive to our dogs (shouting, hitting on the nose, jerking on a leash) would also give us new aggressive ‘skills’ to use out in the world, and lower our inhibitions about their use. Your children, or children watching you train your dog as they pass by on the street, are also forming this habit of aggression.
So why are we aggressive to our dogs? One of the best ways to get a dog to continue to offer behavior, even without a constant flow of rewards, is to reward on a variable schedule. That is, don’t reward the behavior all the time, just some of the time – sometimes five treats, sometimes one, sometimes zero. So the dog becomes addicted to gambling, as in, “Maybe this time when I sit, I’ll get a cookie!” When we use aversives in our training (i.e., we do something like a leash correction, a shock, or shout at the dog), it sometimes works for us and sometimes does not. Sometimes it works very well, sometimes not at all, sometimes it even backfires completely and makes the dog worse, but we don’t know that until later. Sound familiar? It’s very addictive to train using aversives because the human is rewarded on a variable schedule.
That’s that slippery slope I mentioned when I talked about choosing Ahimsa for my business.
There are also negative consequences to the dog, of course. For one thing, it’s not a fun way to live life, expecting punishments for wrong moves. And if she is looking at another dog when she feels the jerk on her collar or hears your angry shout, she can begin to associate that negative feeling with other dogs. Then not only are you aggressive, but your dog is, too.
Even if you don’t like your dog, and don’t care about her state of mind, you should care about your own mind and the state of the world, because violence begets violence. The next time you start to jerk on the collar or shout at the dog, think about how that is one small step away from world peace. Take a deep breath and enjoy your dog with a calm mind.
Note: By trying to the “Alpha Dog,” most people just mean that they just want their dogs to listen to them and think that they’re important. Read the Say Please Protocol to teach your dog to be polite and pay attention!ďż˝
Bandura, et al. Transmission of Aggression through Imitation of Aggressive Models. Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology, 1961, 63, 575-583.ďż˝Written by Grisha Stewart, Ahimsa Dog Training, Seattle